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I know there is something you long to do. But always managed to postpone. Loosing weight; finding the girl of your life (aka approaching and flirting); starting a business; leaving your spouse (yes yes... lets be honest that is one of the things some have in mind). Is it writing a book? Go back to school? Changing job?
The list can go on for ever here.
The reason for not taking action. THAT is the thing one must focus on. In the short term, the rest is just fog.
For example lets say you want to loose weight. A millions things goes into your mind: I cannot start this week because its the holidays... then next week I will allow myself to cheat because its Ben's wedding... Ho! What the hell... just this once... And so on...
That is all babbles. There is a reason underneath all that which prevents you from really taking action. Are you afraid of not being able to complete? Thus never starting. Are you afraid of what the other people will say? Are you afraid to loose some friends and loved ones for what ever reason? In other words, what is the true reason that prevents you from taking action.
Then its on that reason you must focus.
How do you deal with it? Burn the ships!
When Cortez arrived into Mexico, he wanted the gold that the Aztecs had. But his soldiers where not convinced. All reasons were good. Some caught unknown fevers so were afraid to go forward in this foreign land. The Aztecs were thousands and the Spanish were just a few hundreds. All reasons were good and most wanted to go back to Europe. So Cortez ordered to put fire to the ships. Thus cutting all possible hope of retreat back to Spain.
The soldiers' only choice was then to go forward... and win! They simply were cut of any other choice.
Just do the same in your life. Cut your ships. And make sure you have no choice other than undertake what ever your were procrastinating about and win!